TWIG Notes XI: Year in Review
Don’t you get tired of those year in review news specials, where the network tries to recap what was ‘important’ in the past 365 days? Well, I am, but that won’t stop me from an end-of-2007 look back at my own life.
Quitting Jobs. If you asked me in December of 2006 if I’d be quitting two jobs in the span of a year, I’d probably call you crazy. Or I’d call you Larry, or Jim, or Loki the Trickster and Norse god of mischief, strife and fire. However the fact is, in January of this year I quit my job at EA and joined Riptown, only to resign from that job twelve months later. Okay, technically I still have five work days to go at Riptown, but that’s really just a formality. Do I regret leaving EA? No. But in hindsight I probably made a bad choice in where to go. With 2008 bringing a new job, I think I’m back on track.
Moving. It’s actually kind of fun living in different places. The unpleasant part is the actual act of moving: the packing, the hauling shit from one place to another, and the unpacking are activities to avoid in life. Thankfully, our situation in our latest home looks to have improved. Where once I was worried we’d be moving again in the spring of 2008, at this point in time it’s more likely we’ll be able to stay another year. Sure, the ladyfriend and I both dream of a bigger place (like two bedrooms perhaps) but we’ve got a pretty nice home to live in right now.
Marriage. To a woman, no less. It was a lot of planning, a lot of money, and a lot of food, but I think it was all worth it. We had fun, throwing a party for friends and family at a local speakeasy. We got to play dress-up and have the attention on us for a change. We had some old man read a bunch of legal text in front of us and our parents. We got to sleep in a penthouse hotel suite that was bigger than any property we’ll ever own. Both of us got to wear some nifty shiny rings. If I had to do it all over again, would I do anything different? No! Well, maybe I’d lobby harder for the cage dancing go-go girls. But everything else was perfect.
The No Baby Clause. If marriage wasn’t enough of a ‘life choice’ to make, we followed it up a few months later with the decision to never make little Garretts. This wasn’t a rash, poorly rationalized decision like my nipple piercing back in 2000. This was years of weighing pros and cons and thinking about parenthood. Needless to say the cons of parenthood won out big time.
It was a big year in terms of changes. In fact I don’t think 2007 will be equaled in life-altering decisions until I turn 40, have my mid-life crisis, sell my collection of Frank Herbert novels, buy an Audi and have hair plugs. That’s less than eleven years away!
See you in Two Thousand Eight.
