Social Nutworks
First off - I wish I had some testicular joke to make regarding the name of this post. “Social Nutwork” makes me giggle, because I’m mature like that.
Anyway, if you’ve read this blog for the last few years, you’ll probably recall my sneering at social network sites. First it was Facebook, which I was reluctant to join about five years ago but eventually gave in. Last year I finally signed up for Twitter after calling it stupid and lame and pointless. Well, it is - but I actually like it a lot more than Facebook. So much so that I’m going to do another month off from Facebook in February, and if I don’t miss it (I didn’t last time I took a monthlong Facebook fast) I’m deleting my profile from it.
A lot of people complain when Facebook changes stuff, and there’s a big change in their stuff coming very soon. I’ve never really cared or been bothered by Facebook’s changes. I just don’t get a lot of benefit out of using it. My main excuse for staying on was so that I’d get invites to events, but then I realized I have no friends that invite me to events. I haven’t posted photos on Facebook in more than a year, and any messaging could just be done through email. Chatting is already taken care of via MSN and Google Chat, and typically I don’t use those unless I’m at work.
So that leaves Twitter. Basically, it takes the photo-sharing and status updates of Facebook and removes the implicit need for responses or acknowledgement from it all. You write 140-character updates or (though I haven’t done it yet) post a photo. Or share a link. No one can click a “like” button, there’s no page of biographical information required - there’s just people writing stuff, most of the time. Additionally, I can follow pretend girlfriends from Hollywood or the professional tennis circuit, or comedians. None of their stuff is directed at me, of course, and even though I occasionally try, I’ll never actually get a Twitter response from them. But again, that’s not the main focus of Twitter. You put your sentence or two out there, and if someone likes it, they can do so without you ever knowing. It’s not irony, but the fact that I looked down on Twitter so much until I signed up for it, and am now on the cusp of quitting Facebook, wasn’t expected.
